Become More You
For years, I thought I was teaching business strategy.
Then I thought I was teaching alignment.
Today, I realize I’ve been teaching something much bigger.
I’ve been helping people to design the life that they want to live.
I’ve been helping people become more themselves.
Not a “better” version.
Not a perfect version.
Not someone else’s version.
The most authentic version of who they already are.
The people I work with aren’t looking for another motivational quote or another checklist.
They’re looking for permission. Sometimes all it takes is for someone else to tell you to go for it.
Permission to change.
Permission to grow.
Permission to leave what no longer fits.
Permission to dream bigger.
Permission to take up space.
I’ve learned that growth can’t happen if we don’t believe that we deserve to live our dreams.
Growth happens because we finally realize we are worth investing in.
That belief has shaped every major decision I’ve made.
Pillar 1: Alignment
Everything begins with alignment.
When your life no longer reflects your values, you feel it. You may not have the words yet, but your energy, relationships, work, and health begin telling the story.
One of the biggest shifts in my own life was recognizing that work-life balance wasn’t what I wanted.
I wanted alignment.
That realization eventually became my book, Harmony Aligned, and completely changed how I coach women today.
Alignment isn’t about doing less.
It’s about making decisions that reflect who you are becoming.
Pillar 2: Authenticity
Authenticity isn’t a branding strategy.
It’s a way of living.
For years I’ve built business and a life that reflects who I am: bilingual, entrepreneurial, community-centered, deeply connected to both Detroit and Mexico.
I’ve stopped trying to fit into one category.
I am a business strategist.
I am an educator.
I am an author.
I am a professional speaker.
I am an entrepreneur.
I am a nonprofit leader.
I am a coach.
The more I embraced and integrated all of those identities instead of choosing just one, the more my work began attracting the right people.
Authenticity creates clarity, even when it looks confusing from the outside.
Pillar 3: Self-Trust
Sometimes self-trust looks much smaller than people expect.
After my separation from Paco, I switched sides of the bed.
There wasn’t some profound reason.
I just did.
Years later I realized I had never switched back.
That tiny decision reminded me of something much bigger.
Life is rebuilt one small choice at a time.
Self-trust isn’t always dramatic.
Sometimes it’s simply allowing yourself to choose differently without needing to justify it.
Pillar 4: Courage
Courage isn’t the absence of fear.
It’s action before certainty.
I’ve built, failed and rebuilt my business. I created something that never existed.
I’ve hired and led teams.
I’ve started over more than once.
I’ve applied for opportunities that scared me, including TEDx. (Fingers still crossed!)
I’ve chosen to build a life between two countries because it reflects the life I want—not necessarily the easier one.
Every one of those decisions required courage long before confidence arrived.
Confidence follows courage.
Not the other way around.
Pillar 5: Growth
Growth is a lifelong decision.
I’ve failed.
I’ve pivoted.
I’ve started over.
I’ve continuously launched new projects, programs & platforms. I have closed chapters that no longer fit, written a book, raised my coaching prices when I finally recognized the value I bring, and continued learning every step of the way.
None of those decisions came from believing I wasn’t enough.
They came from believing I was worth investing in.
Growth is an act of self-respect.
Pillar 6: Joy
Joy isn’t something we earn after success.
It’s something we create along the way.
You’ll find me dancing.
Swimming in the ocean.
Traveling.
Laughing with friends.
Speaking on stage.
Singing.
Exploring new places.
Those aren’t distractions from my purpose.
They are expressions of it.
The fullest version of ourselves isn’t found only at work.
It’s found in the moments when we feel completely alive.
That is the life I’m choosing to build.
And that’s the life I want to help other women build, too.
Because becoming more yourself may be the bravest thing you’ll ever do.
